3 Things: Ram Dass, Ronny Chieng, and Cooking Osechi by Chris Duffy

Happy last Saturday of the year!

My goal for 2019 was to send these emails every week. Mission accomplished. I hope you enjoyed reading them. For me, it's been a way to force myself to focus on all the good work that's being put out into the world. It was a weekly reminder that's there's more out there than just bad news. And I've really appreciated all the friends (old and new) who have responded to these emails to say hi or to suggest something they thought I might enjoy. Thanks for letting me be a part of your weekend routine. I'm looking forward to starting a new year together.

Upcoming Events

EVERYWHERE
My New Yorker piece about McKinsey is still online and free to read as a "Digital Shout." Link

LOS ANGELES
Thursday, January 9th at 7:30 pm. Due to a scheduling conflict, this show had to be postponed. New date TBA


Wednesday, January 15th at 7 pm at the Lyric-Hyperion. Matt Porter and I are starting a monthly multimedia comedy show called HOMEWORK. Tickets are on sale now. Link

NEW YORK
Friday, February 7th and Saturday, February 8th. I will be back in NYC workshopping a stage show about long term couples and new scientific research on love. Presented by All For One Theater. Link

This week’s list

GREAT:
Ram Dass passed away this week. Over the course of his 88 years on Earth, he went from a clinical psychology professor at Harvard, to a leader of the counterculture movement and advocate for psychedelics with Timothy Leary, to one of the most widely read and studied teachers of Hinduism. It's hard to wrap my head around how broad his impact on American society was. He influenced the way we talk about everything from mindfulness, to being present, to drugs, to the stages of grief.

For the last decade, as he dealt with the aftermath of a stroke, much of Ram Dass' writing and teaching had been about how to overcome physical pain and the fear of death. So I imagine he was about as prepared to go as you can be. This Fall, I watched a documentary about his life where he looks ahead and directly addresses his mortality. It's called Becoming Nobody. Personally, I've found his ideas very helpful in dealing with life's challenges. There's something beautiful and profound in how much laughter and joy Ram Dass brought to the end of his life. 


FUNNY:
Ronny Chieng is a correspondent on The Daily Show and one of the stars of Crazy Rich Asians. His new Netflix special shows a comedian at the top of his game. Sometimes comics release specials and I get the sense that it's more because they had a great career opportunity than that they had an hour of polished material. Ronny's special is the opposite. He doesn't need this hour to come out. Instead, it's the culmination of years of work. It shows. The jokes are sharp, precise, and he doesn't waste a second. There are even a few hilarious moments where he shushes the audience from laughing or clapping too early, so he can fit another punchline in. Here's one of my favorite jokes: So Many Screens


INTERESTING:
I've been reading about traditions people use to mark the passage of time and the start of a new year. I was particularly touched by this story about a family in Washington State that cooks osechi, traditional Japanese New Years foods, as a way of preserving their family's history. "The Sasakis have gathered in Washington State to make osechi for more than a century. Their history, including internment, is the story of many Japanese in America." A Family Connects With Its Past


I hope these last few days of the year are good ones for you. If you like these emails, please forward to a friend or spread the word. If someone forwarded you this email but you're not yet on the list, you can subscribe here.

Happy New Year,
Chris

3 Things: The Far Side, Jordan Klepper, and Eve Babitz by Chris Duffy

duffy3things.png

Hello there!

I hope you had a great week and you're getting ready for some time off. Personally, I'm excited for January to roll around so I can get back into my routines and structure. But in the meantime, I'm using my free time to take in my first holidays in California. Frankly, there's a downright Australian approach to the season and it makes me uncomfortable. I'm seeing a lot of Christmas lights on palm trees and people in t-shirts wearing Santa hats. I'm used to ending the year with Mother Nature launching a full frontal assault on my existence. I mean how can you call it December if wintry mix is a snack combo you put out and not a horrific weather event that blows directly into your eyes? Nice weather in winter feels like a trap and I'm not letting my guard down anytime soon.

Can you tell I grew up in the Northeast? I'm extremely chill and laid back. Happy Holidays!

Upcoming Events

EVERYWHERE
The New Yorker published a comedy piece I wrote this week, which was very exciting for me. It's my first time shouting or murmuring for them. You can read it here.

LOS ANGELES
Thursday, January 9th at 7:30 pm Due to a scheduling conflict, this show had to be postponed. New date TBA


Wednesday, January 15th at 7 pm at the Lyric-Hyperion. Matt Porter and I are starting a monthly multimedia comedy show called HOMEWORK. Tickets are on sale now. Link

NEW YORK
Friday, February 7th and Saturday, February 8th. I will be back in NYC workshopping a stage show about long term couples and new scientific research on love. Presented by All For One Theater. Link

This week’s list

GREAT:
I grew up poring over Gary Larson's The Far Side books with Talmudic intensity. The cows. The wild inventions. The scientists. The cavemen. I'm still blown away by how laugh out loud funny his cartoons are. And now they're finally online so I won't have to hoard daily calendars anymore. You can start with his excellent letter introducing his work or just dive right into the comics. The Far Side


FUNNY:
Jordan Klepper has been on television in many forms in the past couple years: an earnest correspondent, a conspiracy theorist, an overconfident buffoon. He's very funny in all his characters, but I think he's at his comedic best when he's out in the field with real people responding to the insanity of the world. He's back on The Daily Show for the next few months doing some special reports on impeachment from Trump rallies and the results are hilarious and surprisingly insightful. Trump Supporters on Impeachment


INTERESTING:
Eve Babitz was one of the literary stars of the 1970s, but she never really got her fair due. She's having a renaissance now, thanks to Vanity Fair's Lili Anolik, who profiled her for the magazine and then wrote a fantastic biography called Eve's Hollywood. I've been deep in a Babitz rabbit hole the past couple months. She lived such a fascinating life. She was at the center of the worlds of art, music, film, and comedy. She dated Steve Martin and Harrison Ford. She was friends with Andy Warhol and modeled for a famous photo with Marcel Duchamp. She hung out with Joan Didion but also competed with her. In many ways, Babitz was Didion if she had more fun and liked Los Angeles more.

For a taste of why Babitz's books are so much fun, just look at this description from The New York Times: "When she was just shy of her 30th birthday, Ms. Babitz published her first memoir, 'Eve's Hollywood': stories of adventure, anthropological observation, and charmingly, food (Ms. Babitz would have made a terrific restaurant reviewer). Its dedications ran to 8 pages, and included her gynecologist, the Chateau Marmont, freeways, sour cream and the 'Didion-Dunnes for having to be who I'm not.'" The Eve Babitz Revival


Thanks for reading! If you like these emails, please forward to a friend or spread the word. If someone forwarded you this email but you're not yet on the list, you can subscribe here.

Have a great day,
Chris